I’m 26 years old right now. I have a full-time job, but I still think about what I didn’t do when I was in college. I miss being constantly social while living in dorms and apartments. This is not necessarily advice for you, but what I wish someone would have told me when I was in college.
Have sex with all those guys you think you want to have sex with. The boyfriends and hook-ups I’ve had after college were nowhere near as good looking, friendly, and relatable as the guys I met in college. Also, the guys I met in college had condoms available!
Learn local public transportation. I was afraid to go anywhere because I didn’t know if I’d get off on the wrong stop.
Shower in the morning. I missed out on some sexual encounters because I was a nighttime shower person and didn’t feel fresh enough for sex. I’m not talking about down there necessarily.
Don’t be afraid to get tested. I thought the people at the clinics and doctor’s would think I was slutty, and I didn’t want to know if I had something! Now I get tested even if I haven’t changed partners recently, because I want to know I’m being safe.
Let people eat you out. Honestly, in college, the guys weren’t that good at it for me, but they offered a lot. Let them, just tell them what to do. Be bossy!
I don’t regret anything I did during college, but I regret what I didn’t do. As a result I think I short-changed myself in the social and sexual departments.